Alcohol Abuse
The use of excessive alcohol can be habit forming and create a psychological addiction (see also addictions). On this point there is a distinction between a true alcoholic and an inadvertant alcoholic.
A true alcoholic is in love with the alcoholic behaviour and lifestyle. An inadvertant alcoholic drinks not because they like alcohol per se, but as a means of self-medication from intolerable psychological pain that they don't know how to resolve.
How do you know if you are drinking too much? When you notice unwanted effects from alcohol. Government guidelines may be misleading because they have a one-size fits all approach that does not take into account body mass and metabolism. For instance, I'm over 6 feet tall and a man but excessive alcohol for me constitutes more than one glass of wine because I can feel the effects with even one glass of wine as I'm not accustomed to drinking wine very often. On the other hand I've seen women half my size able to drink twice as much as me as me and cope much better. Whereas I don't like feeling foggy minded, that might be a desirable goal for other people. The key is experiencing undesired effects from consuming alcohol, as often getting drunk is a desirable outcome for a lot of the population. If you no longer desire these symptoms, then you have an alcohol problem.
People start drinking excessive alcohol for different reasons: boredom, distraction, stress management, being social and fitting in, as a reward etc, which then becomes a routine or habit. Whatever the reasons, some undesired symptoms may include:
* mood swings: ranging from mania to feeling irritable, melancholy, maudlin and depressed
* emotional problems become amplified
* inability to read mood of others or the situation resulting in inappropriate behavior
* disturbed sleep and rest (feeling unrested even after resting)
* sense of agitation and preoccupation with the opportunity to have the next drink
* secrecy. lying and denial
* overlooking or ignoring other healthy emotional needs, which begin to suffer from neglect, such as work or relationships.
* In addition, alcohol itself can mimic the symptoms of panic attacks (see panic attacks)
In addition, some people who abuse alcohol may develop an addictive mind-set, simialr to excessive users of recreational drugs. Some beliefs are:
* Life is boring without alcohol, and I can't stand being bored.
* People who don't drink are boring. Only drinkers are fun and not boring.
* I can do whatever I want, when I want no matter who it hurts
* I'm not upsetting anyone, we're all just having fun
* alcohol is more imporant than my relationships, so if push comes to shove, I choose it over others in my life.
Therapy for alcohol abuse may be needed for either the cause (the underlying reason why people started drinking) or for the effect (the habit forming side of the behaviour) or both.
An inadvertant alcoholic usually just needs therapy to address the underlying problem. Once that is resolved, the system self-corrects and stopping excessive drinking follows naturally. This may take just 2 or more sessions. Others who drink excessively may need more work with addressing their values, lifestyle and symptoms. As such, the amount of sessions needed varies according to the invidual.
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